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Things people say but are complete lies... 1. Trauma Builds Character/Trauma Makes You Stronger  Most of the time trauma makes people worse, not stronger. Trauma makes people depressed, makes people want to die, makes people question themselves, makes people feel like they are crazy, etc, people shouldn't have to go through this stuff to be strong or be seen as strong.  2. It's Just A Joke!! Usually when people say this it's when someone is bullying someone. Bullying isn't funny or a joke, bullying is cruel and horrible.  3. It Will Get Better It doesn't always get better, sometimes it actually gets worse. Sometimes it stays the same. but usually it seems to get worse.  4. You Can't Be Moral Without God That is the biggest lie ever, i and so many people are good people without believing in a god or gods. Stop spreading this horrible idea. 5. You Will Never Get Anywhere With _____ Job I have seen this one so many times with different kinds of jobs... like when so...

 I see too many people saying "It's just a joke." when they are actually bullying someone, they say it's only a joke when they are making fun of people. Like that isn't a joke, you are just cruel. Jokes are supposed to be funny, sure not everyone will think something is funny, comedy is subjective. But bullying is not funny, there is a difference between bullying and subjective.  Making fun of people for things they can't control is horrible, not funny. making fun of people for how they look, their race/skin color, their gender, their sexuality, how they sound, anything like that is cruel, not jokes.  If it hurts someone it's not a joke!!